Q: Was this your first book? If so, what was the experience writing it like for you?

A: Yes, this was the first book that I wrote. The experience I went through writing my book started with me journaling almost every day to help myself heal when I left an abusive relationship. During that time, I was fighting in court to get my daughter back home. It was a coping strategy that helped me deal with the stress and grief of losing my daughter, who was internationally kidnapped by my ex-husband. Some days the writing even helped me feel less anxious and stressed. Other days it was tough to confront the emotional damage. In the long run journaling and writing helped me cope and learn the relationship with my ex-husband was toxic and unhealthy.

Q. What or who was your inspiration for writing the book and why?

A: My only daughter, Angelina, was my inspiration for writing the book. When she is old enough to understand, I want her to be able to know the truth. She should know exactly how it came to be that her father internationally kidnapped her. I want other women/men going through domestic violence, parental alienation, narcissistic relationship, or mental health issues to be able to read this book and know there are ways out. I also want those who don’t understand domestic violence to be able to read my story, and to learn how hard it is to leave an abusive relationship.

Q: What was the biggest challenge you have had to overcome in life? How did you do it?

A: Fighting for my daughter, Angelina. Having to navigate the court and legal systems while staying strong as my ex-husband repeatedly tried to sabotage me. Learning all the ins-and-outs of the federal system, and working with many law enforcement agencies, district attorneys, and senators. To keep fighting this fight, while I try to live a normal life with my husband and son.

Q: What advice do you have for other hoping to overcome a similar challenge?

A: Talk to those who are going through or went through the same challenges because it will help you heal. Know you are not alone. Having a good support system and keeping a daily routine can really help. A social life can help when you are feeling really down and depressed, and both friends and laughter will help (I promise). Cry. You can’t be stoic and hold everything in – sometimes you have to let it out and have a good cry. I’m here for you!